If I want my children to to cope, I have to give them a life that allows them to. And then I have to step back and give them the opportunity to show me the marvel that they are. — It seems every parenting decision today comes with a whole slew of research behind it. We’ve been conditioned to be hyper aware of every move we make, careful of the potential outcomes of every wrong turn, every slip up. We’re trying to shape these perfect little humans, but do we…